Ashley Judd Felt 'Invisible' as Naomi and Wynonna Judd's Country Music Career Took Off
As Naomi and Wynonna Judd conquered the world of country music, Ashley Judd was left alone to fend for herself.
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Ashley Judd opens up about her painful childhood experiences in Lifetime's new docuseries, 'The Judd Family: Truth Be Told.'
by Megan Elliott
Published on May 10, 2025
Mother-daughter singing duo Naomi and Wynonna Judd took the world of country music in the 1980s, with the pairâs pitch-perfect harmonies and heartfelt songs helping to make them bona fide superstars. But as The Judds climbed the charts and took their show on the road, the youngest member of the family, Ashley Judd, was left behind to fend for herself.Â
Ashley eventually carved out her own successful career as an actor. But when her mother and older sisterâs career took off, she was just a young teenager. And even though she was immensely proud of their accomplishments, she also felt a keen sense of abandonment, she reveals in Lifetimeâs new docuseries, The Judd Family: Truth Be Told, which premieres May 10.Â
Naomi Judd was a single mom whoâd long dreamed of a better life for herself and her two daughters. Once she realized that her eldest child, Wynonna, had a musical gift, she vowed to do everything she could to make her a star. After years of struggle, the pair finally scored a record deal, with their memorable tunes and relatable mother-daughter dynamic helping them to connect with audiences.Â
But nurturing a burgeoning country music career meant hitting the road, and there was no room for Ashley on the bus. Naomi wanted her daughter to have a normal upbringing, so she left her behind in Kentucky.
âI was left alone in the 10th grade. And then I moved in with [my] dad in the 11th grade. And that pattern was replicated,â Ashley recalls in The Judd Family: Truth Be Told.Â
While Ashley knew her father loved her, he also had a drug habit and was in no position to care for a child.Â
âI was affected by his using,â she says. âAt the time, he wasnât able to stay home and look after me. I lived alone in that apartment for a year.â Â
Ashley Judd and Naomi Judd | Lifetime
âAshley, Iâm sure, felt left behind,â Naomiâs widower Larry Strickland says in the candid docuseries, which also features interviews with Wynonna, and various friends and family. (Naomi died by suicide in 2022.) âShe suffered ⌠it changed her, for sure.â
âMy hunch is that the justification for abandoning me came from this belief that I was this very capable child,â Ashley says. âAnd so nobody needed to take care of me. And both of my parents had those beliefs.âÂ
âI felt so invisible. I just fell through the cracks,â she adds.  Â
The neglect had a profound impact on Ashleyâs life. When a man approached her and offered her the chance to model, she jumped at the opportunity. Her agency sent her to Japan, where she lived on her own in Tokyo, even though she was just 14 years old.Â
âIt was a summer of commercial sexual exploitation,â she recalls. While working in Japan, she was molested by the head of the modeling agency and raped twice. âThey just consumed my body,â she says.Â
When Ashley returned home, her mother learned about the assaults. But at the time, Naomi didnât have the âinformation and perspectiveâ to respond appropriately. Instead, she referred to her daughterâs rapist as her boyfriend.Â
Naomiâs perspective on consent later evolved, Ashley says. But at the time, her daughter felt her experiences had been âinvalidated.â Still, she has understanding for her parents, despite their mistakes.
âTalking about the parts of the childhood in which I was just completely abandoned is hard, because itâs not about making my parents bad and wrong,â she says. âMy parents didnât know better. But in 1983, when I was 14 years old, I was just on my own.â
The Judd Family: Truth Be Told airs Saturday, May 10, and Sunday, May 11, at 8 p.m. ET on Lifetime.Â
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